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David Schwimmer and Jennifer Aniston’s ‘crush’ sums up everything I love about romance | イジー価格

David Schwimmer and Jennifer Aniston’s ‘crush’ sums up everything I love about romance | イジー価格
I struggle with dating apps, because the stakes aren’t as high. To really feel anything romantic, I need an emotional build-up, a Ross and Rachel slow burn

いつ デビッドシュワイマー そして ジェニファー・アニストン revealed on 友達: 再会 that they had feelings for each other when filming the show’s early seasons, the news made headlines around the world. And when I heard it, 私は思った: “That’s what I love most about romance”.

I’ve always struggled with dating apps. Not because I have an issue with them; I think they’re brilliant. I’ve met some great people through apps (even though we never made it past one date), and nearly all the couples I know met through online dating. They couldn’t be happier, and I’m thrilled for them.

But I’ve never quite been able to shake the idea of a “Ross and Rachel” kind of love story playing out in my own life. Ross and Rachel were the first on-screen couple I remember being invested in — I was too young to watch 友達 when it first aired, but like most other teenagers, I later watched it from beginning to end. During my formative romantic years, I saw Ross and Rachel’s love story play out over 10 季節, and I think it really struck a chord with me, even if I didn’t know it at the time.

Ever since I was old enough to think seriously about romance, I always imagined what it would be like to have that one person in my life who meant the world to me, whether we were in a romantic relationship or not; someone I just couldn’t shake, no matter who else I met. I have no doubt that that would be a nightmare for others, who prefer to have a clean break and to move swiftly on — often the healthier approach — but it was a thought that always held a lot of romance for me.

In my adult life, I’ve only really been attracted to people where the emotional stakes are high. I struggled for years to move on from one ex-boyfriend, because I always wondered if there could be more to our story — for a long time, we couldn’t seem to let each other go (または, 少なくとも, I couldn’t. I can’t speak for him). I met another boyfriend at work. We liked each other for months, but were both too nervous to tell the other. When we did finally start going out, we kept it a secret from our colleagues for a long time.

I think that’s why I struggle with dating apps because the stakes aren’t as high. That’s not to say that there aren’t high stakes for others — but I think we all approach dating differently. I see meeting someone on a dating app as meeting in a romantic scenario from day one. 多くの人にとって, this is the ideal setup — and objectively, I agree.

だが, in order to really feel anything romantic, I need the emotional build-up – that slow burn, where the relationship shifts from platonic friendship to that inexplicable “something more” without either of you quite realising when or how — until you’re left with a connection that neither of you can deny. This hasn’t happened to me a lot and it may never happen to me again. But I think that feeling of finally being honest with someone you have feelings for — and discovering they share those feelings, when you had assumed they thought of you completely platonically — is incomparable.

When David Schwimmer and Jennifer Aniston spoke about their past feelings for each other while filming 友達, I realised that the revelation summed up everything I love about romance. 私のために, romance is that undeniable connection with another person in your life; a connection that might be inconvenient or disruptive, but that is there regardless.

I don’t think romance always necessitates acting on your feelings — especially if that would mean causing hurt to other people in your life. But my personal ideal romance is encapsulated by that slow-burning spark between two people who originally came into each other’s lives purely platonically. 頻繁, I think not acting on those feelings can make that spark burn even brighter. This was presumably the case for Schwimmer and Aniston; インクルード 友達 creators have since commented on the “electricity” in the pair’s scenes.

I’m not suggesting that dating apps aren’t romantic. 彼らです. They have a wonderful, unique romance all of their own; but there are many kinds of romance, and I also think romance means something different for everyone.

私のために, a Ross and Rachel kind of love story will win over dating apps every time.